I pushed him too much to get married
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have just broken up with my boyfriend of 5 years. He says he still loves me but he made a mistake. The mistake he made is that he cheated on me. The women means nothing, but now he realizes that hs is not inlove with me. Now he tells me he wants a break. But He will let me know after his vacation in a week or so.. to see if we can get back together I don't know what to do because i love him very much. I know he loves me but hs is not inlove with me. He feels really bad about this but he just wants to be alone.. I called him a lot and I shouldn't because i can screw up everything. I told him that i will give him the space. But i know it is sooo hard. We do everything together and we know eachother inside out. I think i screwed up in the process because i push him to much to get married.. and to be with me. I thought i gave him space.. but i guess i didn't. I feel that is why he is not inlove with me
What should I do?
Definitely give him space.
It is difficult to do given your strong feelings about him. But that is what he wants. Call him once a week for about 15 min just to ask him how he is doing but don't pressure him about your relationship.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com