He has a fiance, but she lives far far away right now
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I have a male friend who i have been spending a lot of time with. We started e-mailing after just a few days of knowing each other, then we started talking on the phone for like 3-4 hours at a time. He has a fiance, but she lives far far away right now. The last time they spoke she really hurt him. Plus she is ten years older than him and he says they have lots of problems, but he swears it'll be ok. Every time i try to talk about her he changes the subject. Then he had to go out of town for business so we hung out a couple of nights before he left. We were flirting big time. Also at the end of the night when i dropped him off he kissed me on my cheak and hugged me really tight. He also always tells me how cute i am and how cool i am. Could this mean he is confused because his fiance is not here or could he be confused because he likes me too?
You are right, he is confused because his fiance is far away and because he is developing feelings for you.
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