does her mom have something to do with her not going out with me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
we broke up august fourth and it is now october 10 she wanted to be my friend so isaid i will be her friend.she told me she is thinking about going out again and i was happy then she told me she needs more time to think.then the next week she told me she will never go out with me again.and i told her not to listen to her friends or her mom or her dad but listen to her heart and she wrote me a note and said she will listen to her mom and that it was a bad mistake to go out with me. and she said that she wants a boyfriend who wont get mad at her when she goes places or with her friends and does there own thing and i told her that i changed but she doesnt believe me she still likes me she flirts with me and everything.my questions are does her mom have something to do with her not going out with me?she also said that her mom doesnt want us to go out again and that she said it was a mistake. is there still a chance that we will go out again? my sister said that she talks about me all the time. thanks for your time
It definitely sounds like her mom told her not to go out with you.
Ask your ex what reasons her mom gave and then think about them very hard. Try to figure out if you can change yourself to better match what her mom wants from you.
Then you have to prove this to your ex somehow so that she will tell her mom that you changed. Then her mom should be ok with it.
Good luck! George
-- from George
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