we never really talk or flirt
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
K, me and my girlfriend have been together for about 9 months.....we never really talk or flirt or nothing but i know she loves me and i love her, but when im with her i just have no idea wat to say, and theres always like an ackward quietness between us.and i dont know if she feels the same way cuz shes as quiet as me, but then wen shes with her friends she talks, same wif me wen im with friends i talk with no problem..is like wen im with her i love her soooo much i dont know im speechless.wat can i do to overcome this?oh did i meantion im very shy
It is important for you two to start sharing feelings.
Make a list of topics to talk about. School, afterschool activities, hobbies, sports, family, pets, favorite music, likes/dislikes, friends, plans for the future, stories of your childhood, how you feel about each other. There are thousands of things to talk about. Make a list and be sure to make time for talking.
You might even confess to her that you want to talk more but that you get tongue-tied when you are with her. She will probably say the same thing.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com