now i liked both T* and L*
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
ok to start off, i knew this girl, T* from a couple years back, but we didnt really talk. we split up schools, but i recently saw her at college night at her hs. we started talking again and a few days later, she asked me to her homecoming, only as friends because at the time i had a gf. a few days later my gf broke up with me and 2 days later T* asked to go with me as more than friends, and i told her that i needed some time. but i have a problem. i had started to like this girl L* from church, and a few days after T*, she had asked me to her hc (different schools) and i said yes. later i asked her to my own hc (different school). now i liked both T* and L* but i knew that i couldnt keep them hanging and i needed to pick. well recently ive made up my mind and decided that i have feelings for L*. T* knows that i like them both and L* knows that T* likes me and that i dont wanna be with her, but she doesnt know that the only reason for that is because i want to be with her instead. my problem is my time frame. T*, the girl that i dont like, her homecoming is this coming weekend and everybody is spending the night at someones house, and i know what she'll do if i dont let her know. also i need to let L* know that i have feelings for her, but im afraid she wont feel the same way. should i tell L* or should i let it go its natural course? and when should i tell T* that i dont have feelings for her? do i tell her now and not keep her hanging but ruin her hc, or do i wait til after hc to break her heart (because i found out that she has liked me for 2 years now)? please help me
Go to the homecoming with T* since you said you would.
Tell her you are moving on afterwards (like the day after).
Ask L* to go out with you and see what happens.
Good luck! George
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com