What should i do to stop the arguing

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
My fiancae has been my best frind since 6th grade, its been over 9 years since we met. See but now im a marine and am station in Japan, befor these we were very close and just had small arguments like many couples usually do, But now we argue so bad that it always seems like we brake up whenever we hang up. What should i do to stop the arguing, besause it really gets harder on me being away from her for two years? Not only that but im going to Iraq on Feb.

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To stop arguing... stop arguing.

Take it upon yourself to just stop. Tell her you are not going to argue anymore but simply agree with whatever she says. If she has a problem with that tell her that your relationship is more important to you than any stupid argument.

This may be hard for you to do, but that's what you need to do.

Good luck! George

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