she is my only hope to make me happy and forget about all wat i hate about life.Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
hi, my name is m*, aim a 16 years old guy, and wat i need is help. plz help me, and give some tips. iam in the 12th grade and i like tht girl in the 11th, and iam not socially active, i dont talk to ppl, ive never dated a girl before, and i hve no idea how to tell her how i really feel, there is never a good time, she is always with her friends, and she keep movin around skool, there is no certain place tht i can find her at, i really need to hook up, u hve no idea how i feel about life, iam stuck in a world tht i hate, she is my only hope to make me happy and forget about all wat i hate about life.
Try to realize that everyone in the world hates at least part of their life. Don't think you are the only one who suffers this way.
And, there are many people who have not dated even though they are in their twenties. You are plenty young and have many chances at meeting girls.
This girl you like now may be available (does she have a boyfriend?)
Whenever you see her in the hall, say "hi" plus her name and give her a big smile. Pretty soon she will start saying hi to you. Pretty soon you will start having conversations. Just trust that it will happen and it will.
Be brave, be courageous, have guts! If you don't do it now, it will become harder the older you get. You are young to be in 12th grade, so you haven't had the years of experience that other seniors have had.
Keep being optimistic. Even if things don't work out with this girl, there are many more fish in the seal. Many of them would be delighted to get your attention. Lots of girls have no boyfriends and want them desperately.
-- from George
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