Why does he say he cares, instead why won't he just let me go?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Met this guy over 3 yrs ago, he was a widower w/ 2 kids. I also have 1 kid, we were good friends for awhile, before I agreed to finally go out with him. So here I am now, lost and confused. He calls this 2 yrs relationship 'dating'. He seems to have many issues and no matter how kind and caring I am, he seems to just take me for granted and not care whether or not I cry inside and out. I feel so blinded, lead on and used. It's always about him or nothing at all. He just shuts me out anytime and I feel broken from all of this. His kids, my son and I get along fine, and I have never tried to get between his love for his wife (I respect her and their love w/ all my heart). Why does he say he cares, instead why won't he just let me go? I find myself depress most of the time.
It's time for a talk.
You and he need to have a long, loving, honest, trusting and deep conversation about how you feel about each other. Find some time when you can be alone for at least three or four hours together. Maybe a short walk, followed by dinner, and then continue talking sitting in the car.
It is important to have this talk because both of you are walking on different paths right now.
-- from George
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