me n my ex been going out for 6 months, it was great
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi, me n my ex been going out for 6 months, it was great, yes we are both young, Im 19 and shes 15. We love eachother to death, atleast I think I love her more. Anyways, she brok eup with me telling me she is still young she doesnt want a relationship shes not ready for one. Im not sure if its really that or if she just doesnt love me anymore? I miss her soo much I told her we can be together and work it out and go slow, instead of seeing eachother all the time we can switch to once a week (because we are busy people) and it would help us not get too serious. SHe says she just doesnt wanna relationship. I really love her, and I care about her soo much, she gave me everything and I gave her everything, we both lost our virginities to one another. I need her back. She says she feels trapped because theres a lot of things going on with her. I understand everything thats why Im willing to give her her space. Do you think she just needs time? Would she come back to me? Her parents and family dont want us together n stuff but we manage to do things together as it is. What can I do now? She says to move on and she will too, atleast try to, I cant move on I really love her to death. Shes the one I want when I get older I wanna be with her forever. Please help me! :'( I been real sad n depressed
Let's start off with an unpleasant topic: consensual sex with a minor. You could go to jail for having sex with her. So, that's gotta stop.
My advice is for you to limit yourself to one phone call a week just to ask her how she is doing. Don't bring up your relationship except you can tell her once that you still love her so she knows where you stand.
This phone call shouldn't be too long because that will make her feel that you are heading back to a relationship (which she doesn't want).
With any luck, and with the pressure off, she may come back to you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com