whenever I try to talk to him I chicken out
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
see I really like this guy in my class, and he has a girlfriend, whenever I try to talk to him I chicken out and
yeah but when I found out he had a girlfriend I cried, I
but sometimes when we pass each other down the hall I see him smiling at me, I was wondering if some way he likes me
or how can I be friends with him without getting scard?
You are going to be scared, shy, and afraid.
Until you start practicing your communications skills.
If you want to start with him (and you don't have to) when you see him in the hallway, say Hi (his name), smile and give him a wave. Keep doing this until you feel comfortable. Next just add "How's it going?" and he will say "fine"
Pretty soon you two will be talking without shyness.
You can do this same thing with other girls and boys... but be prepared for having a lot of boys taking an interest in you. It all starts with a little "Hi" :)
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com