lately he hasnt been calling me as much or talkin to me on msn as much either
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
well there is this guy i jus started talking to about 3 or 4 weeks ago over the internet and phone...and he lives about an hour away from me....we talk a lot and he asked me one night how i felt about him...i told him i thought he was really sweet and different from a lot of other guys i've met...and in return he told me the same thing...that i was a down to earth girl, very sweet and he liked me alot....but lately he hasnt been calling me as much or talkin to me on msn as much either...and it mite not bother him as much but i think bout him all the time becuz i love talkin to him and i want to hang out with him im jus not sure if hes really 'busy' or if hes got his mind set on someone else rite now...and id really like to know so that i can back off and not be in his way:S? and is it bad if i keep calling him but hes not callin us much in return? shnould i jus lay off a bit?
Yes, you should back off a little on contacting him.
That will send him the message that you are not someone who can be ignored. He probably will increase his efforts to contact you.
The problem with long distance romances is the infrequency that you have for actual physical contact. Have you two figured a way to solve this problem? Perhaps he is frustrated by not being able to see you.
Talk about that with him and see where it leads.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com