i tried asking her out already and she shut me down

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
There is this girl at school who i really like ive never felt this way about a girl before. but she likes my brother i tried asking her out already and she shut me down and said that she only liked me as a friend and that she liked my brother not me I felt like the biggest looser but i flirt with her all the time and i want to know how to get her to like me what should I do how should I act please help me I like her so much

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Keep on trying and she may eventually say yes.

She likes your brother and you are probably at least a little like him so she should like you a little bit already. Maybe you should ask her out as a friend. She might like that idea.

Pretty soon, who knows, she may grow to prefer you to your brother. BTW, I hope you have cleared this with your brother first.

Good luck!

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