Let's just say he's my first love since i'm only 13!!!!!!

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
my ex that i really like broke up with me n i couldn't go on with out him.I mean we're still great friends but we don't talk as much as we use to.He told me that i've change over the summerbut he's the one that change!I sometimes ask him if he ever did like meand he alwayz why do i alwayz bring the past up or he'll say who ever told u that is lieing.i don't kno if i should believe him or not.i talk to him a couple of days ago n he told me that i wanted me to go back to my oldself but i told him that i haven't really change.when he broke up with me i went home and cry all nite.then for some reason i cut myself.but that was the frist time i ever did that.All i really kno is that i'll love him forever n for alwayz.but the question is that does he love me?and will he ever go back out with me?

I love him dearly.He's the one n only guy that i ever really care for.Let's just say he's my frist love since i'm only 13!!!!!!

RomanceClass.com Advice
Since you cut yourself, the first thing to do is to worry about yourself.

Go to your school psychologist, or minister, or even your parents and get some help!

Ask your friends for advice about breakups. Since you are 13 you must know that most relationships end in breakups. You may be able to get your b/f back again, but always be prepared for another parting. Since this was your first love, you probably don't realize all this yet.

To try to get him back, take advantage of your friendship with him to attract him back again. Do this by always being there for him when he has troubles. Let him use you as someone to talk to. Conversation is the key to a good relationship, that plus trust, honesty, and caring.

You are very lucky to still have him near enough to you so that you can talk. And, remember there are plenty of more fish in the sea!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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