Around a month later we broke up, totally unexpected for me.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
i had a great relationship with a girl for approaching six months. Then one night at a party a girl i knew form work properly introduced herself, and we ended up kissing.that night i rang the missus and explained. She took it fairly well, saying that it was alright, we needed to see each other before she could be ok with it. Around a month later we broke up, totally unexpected for me. She put it down to not ever fully getting over what had happened. Since then she has dated an ex that she was controlled by and stayed in a relationship with for alomost two years beacause he made her feel dependent on him. He cheated on her several times that she was aware of, and she broke up. She told me i was great compared to him, and our relationship was 'teh best'. After we split, she went and got back with him, even whilst he currently treats her badly and uses her. Desperate to get her back, and have what we once did.
You are in a fix.
The traditional way to get back an ex is to remain their close friend and hope that the feelings return. So if you can do that, give it a try.
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