I was with this guy for five years and i dumped him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I was with this guy for five years and i have a problem with listening to my "friends" and i dumped him and was talking to this guy and also slept with his friend. He thinks we were together but we never hung out or talked. I love him so much and he says he can't trust me, yet i never cheated he just couldnt let go. Now i want him back and we've tried and still talk and we still sleep together but he won't be with me. I also had a problem with xanax and sought treatment. Is he just playing me or does he want to be with me and just seeing what will happen next. By the way i'm 21 and been with him since 15. I just needed time to see if it was real because all our friends said we should break up while others planned our wedding, i just didn't know what to do so i ended it in june. Please help me i love him so much and want him back.
You are in a good position to get him back.
You are a good friend of his and stand a good chance of reforming the relationship you once had.
Remind him of the good times you had together and suggest doing fun things.
Good luck to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com