does he just want to sleep with me while she is gone?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My ex-boyfriend and I broke up about a month ago. We had been dating for 3 years. I went over there one day to get the rest of my stuff, and we talked for a long time. We ended up having sex. I told him the I had changed my mind and that I wanted to get back together. The problem is is that he just started dating this other girl, and she was gone for a month. I ended up staying there for the next week and a half. The other day I asked him what he was going to do, and he said that he was going to date her for a while and that when I was done with school that he wanted to get back together with me. He doesn't like the hours that I work right now, he works days and I work nights, so he said it woont work right now. I will be done with school in a couple of months, what should I do? Does he really want to get back together with me or does he just want to sleep with me while she is gone? Advice
The only way to know for sure is to wait and find out.

It sounds pretty suspicious to me but who knows?

Good luck!

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