Is he playing games or do you think that he realizes that he still wants to be with me?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and I broke up recently. He broke up with me i didnt tell him the whole truth about a situation. See during the time me and my ex were just friends. One of my friends called me and asked wat i was doing and if I was bored then me and my friends could go out with him. So we all left. We went back to his house first so he could change his clothes. Before we left he kissed me and I pulled away. I was ready to go after the fact. My ex asked me about what happened that night. I told him that nothing happened but i did let him know that we went to my friends house. I was scared to tell him that the boy had kissed me because I had found out after the fact that my ex really had strong feelings for me. I would always feel one way about a person but i would never get those feelings back in return. So this was new to me and I wanted to hold on to him. I ended up telling him the whole truth. We broke up because of it. He said he couldnt trust me because i lied to him. He said he understood why i didnt tell him the truth but he couldnt trust me. That incident happened way back in April. Here it is september and we break up over it. But he said I was still important and we would still be close. He has been calling me everyday like before when we first hooked up. Everynight before we get off the phone he tells me that he loves me. He said I might get another boyfriend (which i wont anytime soon). He said he wouldnt get another girlfriend because he still has feelings for me. He also said that he wants me to have his baby so then i would never be out of his life. Is he playing games or do you think that he realizes that he still wants to be with me? Do you think the reason hes acting like this is because of jealousy? Is there a good possibility that this means we might get back together? I really do want to be in a relationship with him still because im still in love with him.
The next time he says he loves you and wants you to have his baby, say to him well we could be closer together if you would forgive me for not telling you the truth.
He probably needs a hint that it's time for forgivence.
If he drags his feet then ask him when he is going to forgive you.
I don't think he would be talking the way he does if he didn't love you.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com