About a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
About a week ago my girlfriend broke up with me. I saw her the next day in hopes we can work things out. It didn't turn out good. I call her everyday and she knows how I feel about her. She tells me she doesn't love me the way I want her to but when others ask her if she loves me she tells them she doesn't know. Her reason for breaking up with me is because she thought I wasn't the one for her. Even though we had been only going out for 2 months, this friday would have been 3 months. I always thought her best friend had something to do with us breaking up considering she would hit on me even in the presence of my girlfriend. When she broke up with me I told her best friend off because thats who I thought influenced her decission. When my ex-girlfriend told me that her friend had nothing to do with her dicission I went to appoligise. When my ex-girlfriend found out I went to appoligise to her she got angry and occused me for loving her best friend and told me her friend influenced half her decission to break up with me. My question is, how do I get back with her? I can't eat, sleep, or do anything to get my mind off her.
I have tried talking to her about everything, but she made it clear to me she doesn't want to talk about it. Her friends and family tell her she's making a mistake. When others talk to her about it they get more of a conversation about it than I do. How do I get her back without pushing her away or annoying her?
Keep in touch with her but not too often. Just ask her how she is doing and keep the conversation reasonably short.
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