I am successfully drawing him closer to me but the only problem is his new gf

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Hi, I am so sad, I am finding my ways to get my ex-guy back and it has been for 5 months, things are getting better now but still not to avail, coz he is dating new girl now and I am crafting my ways to be his good friend, it looks better for now ( say it, 70% out of 100%) coz I successfully drawing him closer to me but the only problem is his new gf coz he is on the rebound with her and just started the relationship last month..

The problem now, I am so tired to pretend to be his good friend but this guy is strange, if I tell him that I want him back, he will go away again from me so I must use TACTICS to get him back but now, I am really tired, I wish to end it sooner, how I wish to get him back as my bf and start a new and forget all the bad memories….but If I tell him that I love him, then I will lose all my hard work for 5 months..Help me….what to do to end this game sooner? I lost my energy….

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You have spent a long time working on him and waiting.

How long are you willing to wait? You seem to be tiring. Maybe that means you love for him is getting smaller. Set a deadline for yourself. One month, two months, three months. If he hasn't come back to you by then you should dump him.

You should, at some point, tell him you still love him. It may cause him to run away, but you need to be honest at some point.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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