we began telling each others secrets that should not be hidden

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Listen, I have a big problem with jealousy. I am 17 and my girlfriend is 15. We use to date 2 years ago and got back together. While we broke up.........she had sex with 12 boys.....she did it because she was confused and that she thought that she would never find a good lover.. She was scared to tell me becuzz she did not wonna loose me. SO when we gotten deeper in love.....we began telling each others secrets that should not be hidden......She told me about the 12 boys that she had sex with. I fussed at her and wanted to hate her. She cried like a little girl who did not mean to do a bad thing and that she never thought that she would fall in love. I forgiven her because i love her so, so, so much. Months went by and I began to let her past eat me up, and abused and hurted her feelings of the past she wished that never happened. She cries and falls to her knees when I do her so wrong becuzz this is the first time love ever struck her heart and that she would die than to loose me over a past. When I look into her eyes it sparkles with sorrow. We've been there for one another, cries for one another, and wipes each others tears. When we are having a good time her past keeps on bugging me and hit her for no reason and makes her stay home in her room. I argue with her alot about her past. It's always me bringing up her past. See i should not be getting mad because it's not like she did it behind my back, but it's just I don't understand why. I love her like i knew her all my life...she is my angel that treats me like a real man.....she does not care about wut she did in the past and tells me that no one has never made her feel like i make her feel in bed and in her heart. I want to marry this girl...i do not care about her past...tell me wutt to do to get rid of this past and continue on with her and make her my future wife.

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If you are sure of your love you will forgive her anything.

If you doubt your love then jealousy and suspicion will creep in.

Make up your mind if you love her or not and proceed accordingly.

Good luck!

-- from George
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