i still have that pain and problem trusting him
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i met my boyfriend a little over a year ago and we were together for about 4 months we got real close and then one day i called his house snd his baby-moma (his ex) answered the phone and gives the phone to him he tlls me they are back togther and that he cant be with me . well for about four months we kept in contact email and sending text messages and then we got back together and have been together for about 7 months well during the time they were back together she got pregnant..i dont know how to deal with all this and im scared he might go back to her..i love him very much and he assures me he feels the same.but i still have that pain and problem trusting him...HELP ME!!!
You still have that pain and problem trusting him because it it something valid to worry about.
He has already gone back to her once and now she is pregnant. What is to stop him from going back again?
The best you can do is to love him as much as you can and help him feel his love for you. If your love grows together it is less likely that he will want to go back.
Mostly, be honest with him. If you try to hide feelings from him he will detect that something is wrong.
-- from George
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