she said i only devoted 5% of my time to her and 95% of my time to my friends

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i love my ex so much, we have been the best of friends for 7 years and i have loved her from the day i layed eyes on her. ABout 8 months ago i finally got my chance with her when she realized she loves me to. She broke up with me a month ago because she didnt feel lke she was my top priority and she said i only devoted 5% of my time to her and 95% of my time to my friends. I am up all night crying and all i can think about is i lost the girl i love and the girl of my dreams because i didnt change. She now lives in a house with 4 of her friends. She likes this kid who she cheated on me with at a party we were at, but i love her so much i forgave her for it. She tells me she still loves me bt she likes him and she has fun with him and me and her fight all the time now because one of us says something the other doesnt want to hear. I need her so bad. THis kid she likes now might move into there house because one of the kids might move out. Im so scared that if he moves in her liking of him will grow and she will never look back at me, i will never find the love for another girl that i have for her. I need her in my life as so much more than a friend. I have not had fun doing anything i youst to have fun doing because she is on my mind all the time. There is not a minute that goes by where i do no think of her. I told her if she truly loves me like she says she does than there should be no question about us getting back together soon and she shouldnt even be considering this other kid and all she could say was im not going to promise anything. Everytime me and her hang out she kiss's me and holds me and all sorts of the little things couples do but than she tells me she doesnt know if im who she wants but she continues all the little things. WHat can i do to get her back with me and not even question this other guy..... Advice
Try devoting 95% of your time with her and 5% with your friends.

That's what she wants, and if you don't give it to her then you might as well say goodbye to her.

Once she sees your changed behavior she will come back to you.

Good luck!

-- from George
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