There is this guy i just met and when I see him all he talks about is sex

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There is this guy i just met and when I see him all he talks about is sex. I am 20 and he is 39. Could that be the reason why all he wants from me is sex? Can't I make him see me as more than a sex object? Advice
Some guys never grow up and this guy sounds like one of them.

Whenever you date, bring some topics to discuss of a news variety. He may not want to talk about news, but it may bring some respect to his eyes.

If every date leads to sex, then propose an idea that you will only have sex every other date and that instead you will talk about life.

If he won't go along with these simple suggestions then he's not worth your while and you should drop him.

Good luck!

-- from George
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