Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I broke up with my ex-guy because HIS PARENTS AND HIS SIBLINGS hate me to the core, the real problem was because his Family adored his previous ex-gf so much, the girl was pretty and rich and she was so close to my ex's family when she was together with him.
I knew his previous ex-gf, and I do not deny that she was a caring gf as well but she dumped him for other man after 2 yrs relationship, I felt I was a rebound for him, coz i knew he chased her back for almost 2 yrs. I did my best to care to him but he seemed to keep comparing me with her even though slowly he started to appreciate me
Me and him NEVER fighted at all, we were the most romantic couple until I met his family and they did not welcome me at the first meeting. None of them spoke to me and I was ignored when my ex introduced me to his family.I did my best to be-friend with them but they hated me, two weeks after the first meeting with his family, WE BROKE UP, he dumped me and he said: We should not be together coz my family are against us, I am so sorry..
His family warned him not to meet me again but until today he still meet me after the broke-up (abt 7 months ago we broke-up), even though he did not wish us to be a couple again. I am 23 and He is 28 !!! I could not understand why he is so childish and dare not against his parents?
I am confused, he is dating someone new now and I want him back dearly, why he still meet me even though he has new lover? Is it possible to get him back? but what about his parents? they hate me so much...
He seems very immature and you are suffering the consequences.
And, why is he seeing you while dating another girl... has he changed his mind about you? Did you ask him?
The important thing to do, next time you see him, is to ask him what is going on in his mind. Is his ex still completely out of the picture? Is this new girl liked by his family?
There are so many questions to this problem. You need to have a good long heart-to-heart honest, caring chat with him to try to find out.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com