a week and a half be4 she broke up with me she wrote that i was the greatest bf in the world
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Well things went ok here. I had a fun time with friends today. I texted her to see what was up with her and that i left a message. One thing she didnt like about me was that i was a smoker. And Im gonna try to quit easily. today i cut back by 2/3. i told her to call whenever after she found out that i left a message (which she hasnt called back). No pressure. I did look back on some previous im convos (which i know was bad) and a week and a half be4 she broke up with me she wrote that i was the greatest bf in the world. So it made me think that it was probably over one arguement that we had and made me think she broke up prematurely. Im pretty sure that for now i would anything for her. I just wanna know if it causes her pain to deal with me. i have held my own on the space and the patience just waiting. I guess the confusion is just the hardest part in the world. I wonder if it was just emotions where at the end of the breakup letter she figured we would never get back together again (which is what probably what every breakup is thought about). But i wanna give her the space still, cuz I guess im holding on to hope. after hearing all of this, is this the right thing to do for myself? thanks for hearing me out and i probably sound liek a broken record but it has really helped.
Right now the key is patience.
Give her more time to sort out her feelings and she may decide in your favor. She probably hasn't answer out of guilt and not wanting to hurt herself or you anymore.
But time heals a lot of things, so don't give up hope.
-- from George
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