Or should I just tell him how I feel and cut to the chase?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
I like this guy. I'm 19 and he is 20, we've been friends for about 4 months.. I just cannot tell if he likes me or not. You see we are both into the same things and that is how we started talking. He doesn't believe in having friends yet he calls me almost everyday. He asks me out to the movies and of course we go... and we even go to concerts. I'm like the only person he does anything with and I'm just confused as to why? Is it because he likes me? When I first met him he was not my type at all but as I got to know him he just kind of grew on me. He's not very expressoinal, so he doesn't cuddle with me or try to touch me... But he does get a little defensive when guys try to hit on me. Is my guy just looking for a friend or wanting to be more than friends and doesn't know how to tell me? Or should I just tell him how I feel and cut to the chase?
Yes, just cut to the chase.
He is either shy or weird. I'm surprised you don't know by now.
Let's hope he is shy. Then it is up to you to take the lead both emotionally and physically. Better yet, have a straight forward talk with him and be honest and caring. Find out what in the world is going on in his mind.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com