Talking To the Girl

Visitor's Question from a 13-15 year old Male
There's this girl i wanna date. but i hafta become friends with her first. anyway. i find it impossible to talk to her. first of all, shes not in any of my classes at shcool, second, i dunno her email, third ive been hoping that her sister would just passively give her my email adress without me asking, i can't really say hi to her easily cause she's always with friends in the hallways.

Last, im pretty sure she likes me. i know this because she had asked me out before but i thought it couldnt work out at the time. i regretted that mmove now, and i wanna fix it. on the bright side, im pretty sure she likes me, ive been very observant of her behaviour, im pretty sure ive seen her staring at me, although as soon as i look up she looks away, ive also noticed that she finds me funny and amusing and always seems to listen to me with admiration.

heres where i need your help, i need some reassurances, i need an objective, what do i do. how could i get her email (i could ask one of my friends who is a friedn of hers, but if theres any other way, i prefer to do it more subtly without drawing too much attention), i wanna figure out a way to greet her and to shoot off a friendly smile wihtout looking weird and embarrasing her infront of her firends, i would also like to hear ur view on this. i would apprecitae any help. please right back soon Advice
Talking to a person is never easy. But that's what you have to do. You have to be brave and take that step, go up to her and just say hi. She'll say hi and you can walk on. You aren't going to have super long conversations with her. You're just becoming a normal part of her world. Find out what she enjoys and talk to her about those things. Tell her a joke. Ask her if she saw something on TV. She's an individual. Find out what SHE likes and then make the effort to find out something interesting or funny or newsy about that topic. And then go up to her and say "did you know ..."

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