how best can i get her back by being a good friend or not?
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I broke up with my girlfriend after a year despite lovin her i thought it best cause i was moving away to college, she decided we could still meet up so for bout 6months after we still hung out and slept together this whole time she said she wanted me to see other girls but i didnt really i found myself falling for her more and more but i never tried to make her my girlfriend again, then one she heard i had been seen wit another girl this was true but i basically just took this one girl out for a drink after that she stopped seeing me and went out with a new guy, for months i tried to get her back , then i tried just bein her friend went out with som1 else for a month but i still loved my ex, she says how much she wants to be friends how part of her still loves me and how in a few years we should marry but i cant handle just being her friend especially now she has a boyfriend for past 6months, how best can i get her back by being a good friend or not? i told her i couldnt anymore she was not happy begged me to stay her friend but it hurts me so much? will i ever get her back?
This is a very mixed up story.
Both of you show signs of caring for each other (you more deeply). But she wants to be friends (since she has a boyfriend).
You aren't happy with friendship only.
My advice is to take whatever friendship she is willing to give and be happy with it. Someday she may return to you if you are waiting there as a friend.
My best wishes to you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com