he wanted to finish with me cause he wanted to work out things with his wife
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Hi..I had emailed bf for advices..Thank U for all yours reponses..Well I am dealing now with a break up issue I was dating this married guy for almost 6 months we were in a long distance relationship too everything was so perfect until a couple days ago..Before I came back to see him (he is from Georgia and I'm from NY) to see him, two days later I called him to see how he was doing and he told me that he wanted to finish with me cause he wanted to work out things with his wife and the long distance issue we had..I don't understand why now bf all the beautiful moments we spent toguether and on top of that all the things he always was claiming like he had strong feelings for me. I can't believe the cold way he is acting with me now..I emailed him and called him twice and he hasn't answered me when we were toguether he was always calling me almost every day and acting like he had strong feelings for me and saying that he was scared to the way he felt towards me. I don't understand why he doing this to me now. Can a guy could be with a woman not having any type of feeling for her just to get what he wants? now I have this terrible feeling of being used. I gave him the best of me just because I trusted him. Don't know what to think.. I wont call him I decided to let things to be the way they are now but I still care about him alot..my heart is broken..
He is acting cold to you because he wants to present a strong front and not feel like changing his mind. So don't feel like you have been used. He probably cared for you very deeply but eventually had to make a decision and it was to keep his marriage together.
So you should let things be and wish him a happy life. Meanwhile work on getting your own happy life going again.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com