He isn't going to leave her at this time due to his two children 11 & 15
Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I meet this married man about six months ago, instantly we knew there was an attraction. We talked about pursuring it at the time, but both knew it wasn't right. We talked a lot about us and his marriage. He loves his wife but isn't in love with her. He isn't going to leave her at this time due to his two children 11 & 15. After awhile we lost touch, but recently we have started a "relationship." I have found myself in love with him but don't know how to approach the subject to him, without scaring him off or losing him forever. HELP!!!!
Don't tell him you love him. Leave things be the way they are.
You shouldn't be having an affair with him anyhow. Too much danger of ruining other people's lives. And he would always blame it on you.
You are the one who stands to gain the most out of this and you should bear more of the responsibility for making sure others aren't hurt.
The best you can hope for is an ongoing affair that ends when one of you two come to your senses.
-- from George
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