Anyway she said she wanted to take things slow and not rule anything out for us happing.

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I called the girl a few days later and I ended up staying at her place 3 other times. They were great times but no sex and I wondered why? Maybe from what I said the first night which was maybe we should what. Total nights spent together is 4.

The the 2nd time I stayed I asked who was in the picture with her on the night stand.
She said ExBf with some hesitation. I replied "cool." I wasnt part of her life in the past so it was no biggy. The next moring we talk for hours and I asked her what she thought of us and what direction it was going.
Now she had been calling me to come over rather me calling her.

Anyway she said she wanted to take things slow and not rule anything out for us happing. Then she said that she wish that her ex could just tell her why it was over, I asked if she would get back together with him. She said no, she just wants a reason. It seem good then she took me home, we had talked about getting together later. Later she called for my roomates # for her sister, they had met the first night and hit it off. She tells me that we are doing something and will call back. My roomate gets the call from her sister and made plans to meet but she never called me back. I sat around wondering what was up. I get a call a few hours later from her asking whats up and what happend with my roomate and did he freak about her sister kid being with her. I said I had no idea what was going, She then asked if I could come over, I did. I was trying to ask why she didnt call me to meet with them down town. she said she should of called. Well in the morning I felt odd and thought I should go. We talked about doing somthing later and that I would call. I called later than the time we said and didnt get answer. We havent talked for a few days and I dont know what to do. My roomate has a date with her sister tonight.

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You are not giving her enough feedback about how you feel about her.

That would explain her laid back behavior towards you. You need to let her know how you feel about her and proceed from there.

Hope this turns out ok for you!

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