Is she annoyed or just in as much pain as i am and what can i do to get her back?

Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My Girlfriend dumped me after 1 1/2 years in college 4 days ago and will refuse to talk to me, even about issues that we need to resolve like cell phone plan and my possessions i lent to her. whenever i get brought up to her she just says i dont want to talk about. Is she annoyed or just in as much pain as i am and what can i do to get her back? Advice
She is probably feeling the pain too. It is probably too soon for you two to figure out your post breakup relationship.

As I mentioned the other day, you want to remain her friend and be there when she needs a shoulder to lean on. Do as I said and wait a week before contacting her and then try to establish a friendly relationship. It is too soon to do it now.

Good luck!

-- from George
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