I kept telling him that I was going to leave,but never did

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I wrote before regarding my reationship with an older man while I have been married.He does not have any children and he is not married.He told me that we couldnt see each other anymore because he was feeling guilty and I think he wants me to leave my husband.I kept telling him that I was going to leave,but never did.I have not heard from him in almost two months.I have written him letters but he has not responded.It is like I have disappeared from his life.I love this man so much and I just dont know what to do.

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The problem is that you told him you were going to leave your husband but you never did.

This left your ex in a bad situation. Here he was cheating with a married woman with no hope of making her his wife.

If you want him, contact him and tell him you are leaving your husband.

If you don't want him, just keep doing what you are doing now.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

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