Now since i have got my fantasy out of the way I no longer want to cheat

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I have been engadged for 14 months now. I had only one previous love before my fiance. My first love was young my parents were really strict and they wouldn't allow me to do date or do anything until I was at the age of 18. My fantasy has always been able to see where our relationship was going to go. I lied to my fiance and told him that I was going out with the girls, when I really went to my first party with my ex-b/f. We ended up in the house in a spare bedroom and we had just started having sex when someone walked in. I got up put on my clothes and left. It only lasted for about 60 seconds TOPS! Now, my problem is i have began to feel guilty. Should I tell my fiance(whom i lost my virginty to) about what I did? I was a virgin and he wasn't, he got to experience the one night stand only one time as well. I know I'm wrong for cheating, but should i tell him b/c if i do i can count on our relationship to be over. Now since i have got my fantasy out of the way I no longer want to cheat. The sex was disgusting and it didn't feel right. I feel like I have now found out how much I really love my fiance now... HELP PLEASE Advice
Since you no longer want to cheat, the best thing is to keep quiet about it.

This is lying, of course, and you will have to try extra hard to never lie to him in any way in the future to make up for what you did.

If it happens again, you have to tell him.

Good luck!

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