he's been wanting intercourse for a long while now but it hasnt happened yet.
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Hi. My boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 8 complete months now and we love each other! But ever since maybe last month, he's been acting, not different (it's somewhat normal for him), but kind of...mean. Like he'll just, out of no where, have these mood swings and breakdowns. When he gets like this he says he doesnt deserve me and he cries sometimes, and if not that he just gets really short tempered. We're really phycial and emotional when we show our love. But he's broken up with me twice already in this relationship, but has always asked for me back in less then 5 minutes. Also, he's been wanting intercourse for a long while now but it hasnt happened yet. We never get much time alone to ourselves. But the question is, am I doing something wrong?
Could be that his desire for intercourse is making him moody.
But that is not a good reason for you to go along with him if you are not ready.
Perhaps he is just a moody person. Don't blame yourself, his moods are his own doing and not yours.
Try to talk it out with him and see if you can find what is troubling him.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com