She told me that they only talked for a couple of months and that she slept with him again
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half. I know nothing about him before I met him, but I do know that he was not a virgin.(I lost my virginity to him. When we first started dating we both had a lot of friends, then he went to college and stopped talking to all these people and got really jealous when I would talk to people so I stopped for him. About ten months ago this girl was calling him crazy, supposedly she was "stalking" him. Well I had talked to her and she had told me that she slept with him, he denied it and said she just wanted to break us up, and I believed him. Now today I looked at his phone bill and found a suspicious number that was called a lot for like a month, I called it and it was her! He says that he didn't tell me because of how I'd overreact. She told me that they only talked for a couple of months and that she slept with him again. Who should I believe? He tells me that she's still trying to break us up and we talked about it, but I still feel weird about it. I don't know what to do.Please help me because I love him and we had plans to get married, but I don't know! I'm confused! Who should I believe???
You have it in black and white that he was talking to her.
He didn't tell you about it which is a form of lying.
She may be lying too.
You are going to have to figure out who to believe.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com