the next time i saw him he wanted to have sex and i told him no that i wanted to wait
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
i have been friends with this guy for about 2 months and the other night we made out. the next time i saw him he wanted to have sex and i told him no that i wanted to wait because i dont believe in casual sex. we did have oral sex and he said he wants to see me again but i dont know if he is just trying to use me and get me to sleep with him. i'm afraid that if i ask him what he wants that he will lie and say he's not using me and then i'll get hurt. what should i do?
Have long, gentle, loving, honest, trusting and caring conversations with him about your concerns.
Based on how he responds, you should be able to tell how he really feels.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com