the next time i saw him he wanted to have sex and i told him no that i wanted to wait

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i have been friends with this guy for about 2 months and the other night we made out. the next time i saw him he wanted to have sex and i told him no that i wanted to wait because i dont believe in casual sex. we did have oral sex and he said he wants to see me again but i dont know if he is just trying to use me and get me to sleep with him. i'm afraid that if i ask him what he wants that he will lie and say he's not using me and then i'll get hurt. what should i do? Advice
Have long, gentle, loving, honest, trusting and caring conversations with him about your concerns.

Based on how he responds, you should be able to tell how he really feels.

Good luck!

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