I also am a bit lost,I don't know if I should tell him what I'm feeling
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
Yesterday me and this guy went out to have some coffee.He picked me up at home and we headed to a bar.There we stayed chatting for about 2 hours.There I could be sure he was a really nice guy,we talked about our personal tastes and I found out that we have lots in common and stuff like that.I have to confess I was a bit nervous(not sure about him,but he seamed a bit nervous too) and sometimes I couldn't look at him straight in the eye.
So,after those 2 hours chatting we head back to our homes and a few hours later we talked again on msn about general stuff and after I went to sleep I told him that I liked really much to go out to have some coffee with him.He replied he also liked it,that it was really cool and I said that our "date" only confirmed what I thought about him,that he is really an awesome guy.He said that I could bet he thought the same thing about me,that I was really cool...So.I was about more 15 minutes talking to him before I really went to bed,and at the end I was like "So,I'm going off to bed now...really...I swear..." and he was like "oh..." I asked him why did he say,if it was because he wanted me to say in which he replied "Sure...".
I checked what was his topic on msn and it was a sentence like this: "I would like to know if you're that someone who cares about me and who wants to join my sins...".I asked him about it,if he has that many sins that he has to have someone to share them with,and he was like "loool...who knows..."
So,I'm here wondering if he stil has any feelings for me because through the whole conversation I didn't gave any signs that he could still feel anything for me(I don't know if I should consider those things mentioned as signs,or anything at all).I also am a bit lost,I don't know if I should tell him what I'm feeling....we already had a conversation about 3 weeks ago about our feelings and he said at that time that he didn't want to jump off into a relatioship with me 'cause he still liked another girl.But I think,that, if he still likes me we should give ourselves a chance...And I'm a bit lost on what to do next regarding this situation
Anyway,any advice on this is greatly appreciated!
Yes you should tell him how you are feeling.
This is the most important part of any relationship. The first thing two lovers ask each other is "how are you doing?" That is the foremost thing in their minds.
Keep up the conversation with him and you will discover that you two will grown together.
Best of luck!
-- from George
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