how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her?

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
i am 16 years old and the guy i like doesnt know me. he goes to my school and is in my grade. he's only in my history class. one of my best friends offered to talk to the guy i like. he told her he doesnt know me, and then she told him he should get to know me lol. he seems really cool though and hes so hott lol. he's interested in things i like, i know that because he had to stand up in front of our history class for this get to know our classmates activity in the first week of school. if you were to ask any of my close friends, theyd tell you i am a very quiet girl (at least in school). how can a shy girl get a guy to notice her? Advice
Stop being so shy! All of us were shy at one time but we spent the time and energy to get over being shy.

Whenever you pass him say "Hi + his name" and give him a big smile. Pretty soon you can say "How are things going?" and he will say "fine." Maybe then you can strike up a conversation with him.

Getting over shyness is a slow process and you have to take it one step at a time. Work hard at it. Say hi to other guys too just for practice.

Also, make yourself as attractive as possible. Dress nicely, take care of your hair, deoderant, mouthwash. These will make you attractive and they will also make you feel attractive.

Good luck!

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