Do you think he likes me calling him? Do you think he thinks about me?

Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I've been seeing this guy for 9 mos now. I've already established that he is not the calling type. I call him when I want to see him and if he's not busy he'll call me back. Last week I was supposed to see him twice but I couldn't because something came up. We can't see each other this week because he's going to the river. Anyway, I call him sometimes at work and we talk and laugh. The other day he gave me a starbucks card to get him and I some coffee. I mentioned to him that I'm still trying to figure him out. I asked him if he was trying to figure me out and he said no he doesn't think about it because then it takes the fun out of it. I told him you're right. I know he is a player and that's fine (because I am too) but there are days where I just want him. This morning I called him and told him something "nice", he was with his boss and co-worker, so he just laughed. I asked him if I can call him next week and he said UM HM, (YES). I've asked him before if he wants me to stop calling to let me know that I'm a big girl and I can handle it. Do you think he likes me calling him? Do you think he thinks about me? Advice
Yes, he likes you calling him... it's an ego boost for him.

Does he think about you? That's not easy to answer. I'm sure he thinks of you some of the time at least. You would have to ask him.

Sounds like you are a compatible couple.

Good luck!

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