My ex just broke up with me and he told me that if i call him again he would change his number

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My ex just broke up with me and he told me that if i call him again he would change his number. But I don't want to lose him.I miss him so bad. We were together for two months.He broke up with me because he said I call him too much and that I'm starting to stress him out. So I kept calling him after he told me t stop calling and basically begged him to still be my friend.He said we could still be friends that I just had to stop calling him!!Help me!!I want him back Advice
The last time you wrote, I suggested you stop calling him so much (that you should only call him twice a week).

You kept calling him after he threatened to change his number.

You don't seem to get the message. After two months you don't have a deep relationship that seems worth saving to him.

If you want to listen, here's what to do. Don't call him for two months.
Then when you talk to him only ask him how he has been doing and is he ok.
Then tell him it was nice talking with him. Try again in one month and talk more but don't mention your relationship.

If he has any desire to get back together with you, he will make the first move.

You've already lost him so you have nothing more to lose by following my advice.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at

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