From what she talks about him he seems like someone she doesn't need to be around
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Hi I'm 17 years old. Junior in high school. Recently I just met an ex girlfriend that I haven't seen in 3 years. Words can't explain what she means to me. She broke up with me 3 years ago because of her relocating and when she did we lost contact with each other. We've regained contact and I found out she has a boyfriend. From what she talks about him he seems like someone she doesn't need to be around. He's a bad influence and he gets her in trouble a lot. He also seems a little inmature. I love this girl with no doubt in my mind. She doesn't know how I feel about her, b/c i'm not sure I need to tell her since she has a boyfriend. I want her. I want to be back togeather again. What do I need to do?
Maintain your friendship with her.
After a month or so confide to her that you care for her but don't want to interfere with her relationship. She can then decide what is best for her.
Be the best friend you can be: sharing feelings, trusting, caring, etc.
My best wishes are with you!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com