we have so many things in common and we have sooo much fun together

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
There is this guy I have been talking to for 5 months now and him and I are so compatible, we have so many things in common and we have sooo much fun together. No relationship I ever had with a man felt so right. The thing is this guy has a gilfriend. Him and I have been intimate twice and at the time I knew he had a girlfriend. Well right now I told him that him and I cant see each other like that anymore and he agreed since he has a girlfriend and all. Now anytime I call him it seems like he doesn't want to talk to me and he says I am stalking him. I care about this guy and I feel deep down that this guy is for me. I felt so close to him and now I feel used and betrayed. What should I do? How can I make him see how good we are together?

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The best way is to stay away from him for awhile.

After two or three weeks ask him if you could just be friends. That way if he ever breaks up with his girlfriend you will be there waiting.

However DO NOT be intimate with him while he has a girlfriend, that makes a cheat out of him and makes him feel bad about himself. It is also not good for you.

Good luck!

-- from George
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