she is a good- girl (nationaly ranked violinist), I am a bad-ass

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I meet this girl (x) on vacation and we had a real conection and ive been geting mixed signals from her sister and her friends and theres one other thing we r complete opposites she is a good- girl (nationaly ranked violinist, never had so much as a demerit at school, and hot as hell) where as her friends have called me a badass and pimp among other things (i play guitar in a metal band listen to metal and raise all kinds of hell at school)so i was wondering is there anyway this could work we only live a hour(1/2) from each other and talk by phone or im every day so could there be any chance it would work?

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The novelty of opposites may last months, but in the long run I don't think it will work out.

That's just one person's opinion, of course. But, successfull relationships are usually based on similar likes, attitudes, etc.

The fact that you both are very much into music could be a positive sign, but your choice of music could draw you apart more than together.

My advice is to give it a try but both of you should recognize that you have an uphill battle.

Good luck!

-- from George
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