i would do anything to get him back in my life
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
ok i liked my ex for 2 years before we started dating..he didnt like me then cuz he said i was annoying..so i said w/e and forgot bout him..then on halloween night at my party i was having he came up to me and said so i hear that you still like me? is that true? i said yea..then he said well do you wanna date? i was shocked cuz he always hated me..so we dated for 4 months..then he went to college in like jan 1st or something..after a month i couldnt take not seeing him all the time..he never called anymore and he was never online so i decided to end it..it was the hardest thing i ever had to do..one cuz i really cared for him..and 2 cuz he didnt wanna end it.so that was in feb right after v-day. then april 1st jr.prom, afterwards we all went out to dinner and stuff and he came to chill,afterwards we all went to my house to sleep over..bout 16 of us he kept flirting with me the whole night..so then in the morning he was sitting in a chair and i was sitting on the floor next to him..he kept poking me and stuff so i turned around and he put his face really close like he was about to kiss me..but then turned.(one of his games)...so i asked him straight up..do you still like me? he said a little yea..but not enough to go out agian only enough to have sex .. so while everyone went to go get lunch we went down in my basement and talked then one thing led to another and we were having sex that was the last time we did,then afterwards i didnt see him for a while..the only time was when we got a group together of us (friends)he still flirted a little and sh*t like that. but not enough for me to tell if he really did or not like me still,then at my going away party( i moved to jersey from pa) he came and he told my friend dan that he felt akward around me cuz he knew that i still cared for him..my mother thinks that and cuz he prob still has feelings for me aswell,then the last time i saw him was at my friend a*'s going away party
he flirted with me there to..but not a lot..enough so i could notice..and when i looked into his eyes i felt a conncection ...and thats the story ..i havent talked to him yet since then..I'm thinking about calling him and asking him if he would wasnna hang out just us sometime or soemthing..and see what happens there...i dont know what to do...i miss him like crazy..i dont think he feels the same.but i would do anything to get him back in my life...i cant stop thinking about him..i know it sounds crazy..i can't help it..every little thing reminds me of him...i would do anything..and i mean it...ugh..what do i do?
The best thing you can do is to forget about him.
This is a hard thing to do, but if you start looking for a new boyfriend and find one you will forget him quickly.
He doesn't have much interest in you and lives far away. That's two strikes against you right there. And once you find a new boyfriend the third strike will be against your ex.
Really, your only real choice is to find a new boyfriend and fast!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com