when does a persons ego or pride gets in the way of reconciling and moving forward
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My question I pose is how do you know when a persons ego or pride gets in the way of reconciling and moving forward. I want her back and hopefully she wants me back. It seems like theres bit of a competition going on to see who breaks down and calls the other first. I'm not about the games and I'm not saying thats the case. Maybe it is. I haven't spoken to her in 3 or 4 days already and all I did was tell her I came to the realization that we're not together. I never said that I wanted to stop talking to her or things are going to change. She already had it her head that we weren't a couple so why does it seem like we just broke up in fact in all actuality,we been broke up.
I don't know what to think of it. I'm not calling, because I've been doing the chasing and I'm tired so I stopped. Why do you think she hasn't called me yet. She may end up calling this weekend though. I love her to death, but I think she has problems with her ego and pride. She is also manipulative. She thinks I'm going to break down or something. Do it sound like I have a problem with my ego, too? I hope not. I think I'm doing right though.
If you "love her to death," pick up the phone and call her.
There is no place for egos or games when love is involved. Just love, honesty, trust, friendship, etc.
Tell her plain out that you don't want to play games and that you love her and want her back. This shows that you care enough about her to want to be honest with her.
-- from George
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