Romantic Forums! Get the answers you seek quickly and easily! If you can't find what you need
here amongst our tens of thousands of tips and questions, be sure to Post in our Romantic Forum!
We've got over 9,800 members ready to give you a hand!
A Love Quote
Love will not always linger longest - With those who hold it in too clenched a fist. -- Alice Duer Miller

He is not ambitious and I want a husband who is ambitious and motivated like myself

Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been dating since we were 16. I have never dated anyone else, but he has. We are now 19. We have been talking about getting married for a year or so, but I'm not sure he's the man I want to marry. I'm now in college and he dropped out of school during our sophomore year of high school. He has been working on his GED. however, he still hasn't gotten it. I have big dreams (owning my own business, purchasing and island one day) and he is content with just getting by. I'm afraid my goals have gotten in the way of my love for him. He is not ambitious and I want a husband who is ambitious and motivated like myself. We argue constantly over stupid things. I think it may be because I have some resentment for him not wanting to go to school, or do anything with his life. Recently we decided to have an open relationship because I told him I want to date other people to make sure he is the right one. He said ok. But I was wondering is this healthy, I love him as a person other than the arguing, which we both initiate. But our mentalities and views of the world are too different. Should I date other people or If I truly love him is this unhealthy.

RomanceClass.com Advice
Seems your ambition has come in conflict with your love for him.

You broke up with in order to see other people and he agreed to it. So, you ought to see other people. It will clarify how you really feel about your bf.

My sense that unless you love him to pieces and he is everything you want, the relationship will not work well. You have identified a major difference in your personalities and want to date others.

I agree with you.

Good luck!

-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com

Add RomanceClass  to Twitter Add RomanceClass  to Facebook Add RomanceClass  to MySpace Add RomanceClass  to Del.icio.us Digg RomanceClass+ Add RomanceClass  to Yahoo My Web Add RomanceClass  to Google Bookmarks Add RomanceClass  to Stumbleupon Add RomanceClass  to Reddit

Speak Your Mind - Share your Thoughts on this Question!

All Advice in the category - Arguments / Fighting

Browse our Answer Database
- Browse Answers by Question Category
- Browse Answers by Age Group
- Browse Answers by Date of Response

Please read through the advice on this site before you Submit your Own Question! We have thousands of pages of valuable advice that can immediately help you with your situation.

Sparkly Irridescent Glitz Gel

Going to a party or special event? What to feel special no matter what you're doing? Roll on some glitz! Perfect for adding a special bit of sparkle to your day or evening.

Buy Glitz Gel at EclecticLady.com

Bookmark this site so you can reference it any time you need romantic / relationship info in the future!

Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Twitter Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Facebook Add Romance+Class+Website+ to MySpace Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Del.icio.us Digg Romance+Class+Website+ Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Yahoo My Web Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Google Bookmarks Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Stumbleupon Add Romance+Class+Website+ to Reddit


Follow Me on Pinterest

Romantic Tshirts, Bags, Mugs and More!

Love is Patient
Love is Patient ...
Deeply Loved
Deeply Loved ...
Random Kindness
Random Kindness ...

These are just a small selection - Visit the RomanceClass Shop!

Join This Newsletter!

RomanceClass on Facebook

Join This Newsletter!

Past Issues

| About RomanceClass | Advertising | Privacy Policy | Submit a Suggestion |
All content copyright 2013 Minerva WebWorks LLC. All rights reserved.

this site is for amusement only - professional advice is not being rendered

French Wedding