I've been with this girl and we've broken up
Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
This is the thing. I've been with this girl and we've broken up. I came to the realization that were not together. Recalling back on Sunday when I went to see her, she said that 10:00pm was bedtime and I had to leave. So usually I'll be like yeah right, this time I was like ok. I left at 10 on the dot and that was that. Normally when whoever gets home, calls the other prson just to assure them that the other got him. I didn't do that. So the next day, she was like why did you leave. I was just kiddin. I told her you didn't tell me you wee. She was like I thought you were gonna be like whatever. I was like oh. Then she ask why didn't I call when I got home. She asked what time did I get in the house and if I had fun. I said that I got in the house right after I left you. Sometimes she doesn't call or think that she doesn't have to call, but all of a sudden, she asks me why I didn't call.
How do I know if I have a second chance with this girl? What are some signs I can look for? Should I stop calling her and start letting her call me or what? I'm not trying to chase her and I want her to know. How long should I wait or remain flexible before I say forget it? What do you think?
You have to decide for yourself how long you will let things go on the way they are.
I think you are in a good position for her and you to get back together if both of you don't have big egos. You both seem to get along reasonable well together so why not ride on that happy wave for a while?
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com