she said she wants to see other people and she also said she loves me
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Male
Ill try to keep this as short as possible.We broke up August 4th and she said she wants to see other people and she also said she loves me and I asked her out again and she said no because she dont want to spend the rest of her life on one person.If she loved me then why is she risking loseing me over someone she doesnt love? Should i keep trying to get her back? should i give up on her? Should i ask her mom if she will help me out? My life is over with out her.I love her so much.I have one more question for you.Should i let her go out with someone else and i do the same thing and wait for her to comeback to me any advise would work thanks for your time
She wants to see other people, that is a fact.
So you have little choice but to let her do so (and you do so also if you want to). Dating may open her eyes to what she may be losing (you) and bring her back to you.
My advice is not to get third parties involved, in other words don't try to get her mother to help you. It might just make your ex mad and would definitely confuse things.
Don't object to her seeing others, if you have self-confidence you will come out the winner by comparison.
Keep communicating with her and let her know you love her and are waiting for her so she is clear on that subject.
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com