should i be friends with him, should i play games?
Visitor's Question from a 16-20 year old Female
we broke up about a month ago. It was over a stupid argument on trust as i told someone something his sister told me and he then believed that he couldn't trust me anymore. Me and his sister are now cool, meaning we are friends and we talk just like the way we used to.. she knew i didnt mean harm and it was a mistake. But he never really talked to me about everything when we broke up. Now he told my friend that he doesnt like me (as of last week) and he thinks we should just be friends. i can.t believe this and i know that he used to care for me deeply so how did he just get over me? and what should i do to get him back? should i be friends with him, should i play games .. we have to talk soon, that is me and him what should i say?
Definitely do not play games.
He has a trust issue with you already and games would just put him off more.
Instead take advantage of your talk to stress how you have learned from the experience and that you thank him for bringing it to your attention.
Have a long, honest talk about where your relationship stands. Make it a gentle and loving conversation. Remind him of the good times you had together and perhaps suggest something to do that you would both love to do like go to a concert.
I wish you the best of luck!
-- from George
One of Your Friendly Advisors at RomanceClass.com